The destructive habit of social comparison

In the age of social media, comparison has become almost instinctive. Overwhelmed with edited and cosmetically enhanced faces, reshaped bodies positioned in carefully calculated poses, and all manner of lavish possessions, our perception of reality can begin to warp and, in turn, our self-worth suffers as the expectations we hold for ourselves adapt.

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What is gaslighting?

You’re tapping your foot, waiting for your husband to come home from work. He’s late, for the tenth time in a row. Finally, he appears and you ask him why he keeps coming home late. ‘What?’, he says, shocked. ‘I haven’t been coming home late. Are you sure you aren’t just losing track of the time?’ You’re pretty sure he’s late.

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Life with a hidden disability

Hidden disabilities are exactly what they sound like: disabilities that are not immediately apparent. Although the disability is a challenge for the person who has it, it can be difficult for others to recognise or acknowledge the scope of the disability if they can’t see any traditional evidence.

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Determining the legality of war

All is fair in love and war—isn’t that the saying? Unfortunately for John Lyly, who first published this sentiment in 1579, but fortunately for the rest of us, this does not hold true today. Even war has rules thanks to the new world order founded after the end of the second world war.

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